Masturbating increases your libido...
(it's true!) – an honest story from a HappyToys customer to Simone
By an anonymous customer, shared with Simone from HappyToys
More than just pleasure: masturbation boosts your libido
“Simone, I just had to share this,” I began. “Because there’s still such a weird vibe around masturbation, even though… almost everyone does it.”
And you know what’s even crazier? Many people think that masturbation lowers your sex drive. That it makes you “less interested.” But from everything I’ve read and experienced myself, the exact opposite is true.
In fact: it can actually give your libido a boost.
The big misconception: less desire because of self-love?
It is often said that if you masturbate often, you have less need for sex with a partner. But honestly? That’s simply not true.
What I noticed:
- The more I got to know my own body
- The better I knew what I find pleasurable
- The easier it is for me to get in the “mood”
👉 The result? More desire, not less.
And you see that reflected in how people use toys. Not as a replacement, but as a supplement to their sex life.
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What does science actually say?
I dove into it (yes, really 😄), and it’s actually quite interesting.
H3: Testosterone remains stable
There is no evidence that masturbation lowers your testosterone. That idea comes from old myths.
In fact:
- Your hormones remain largely stable
- Sometimes there is even a slight increase after arousal
- Your body regulates itself surprisingly well
So no, you don't turn into a “limp dishrag” as some people think.
Taking a break? This is what happens
There are studies that say your testosterone temporarily rises after about 7 days without an orgasm.
But:
- That effect is brief
- After that, everything normalizes again
- And honestly… who keeps that up?
So it's no reason to deny yourself anything.
Masturbation = less stress + better sleep
What I personally find the best part:
- Less stress
- Relaxing faster
- Better sleep
And that makes sense, because your body releases endorphins. These are literally your “feel-good” chemicals.
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You notice the difference immediately.
And what about fertility?
I found this surprisingly interesting myself.
Regularly finishing can actually help with:
- Healthier sperm (for men)
- Better blood flow
- Greater sexual response
But as with everything: there's no need to overdo it 😉
👉 Tip from Simone (and I take that seriously): balance is key.
My conclusion, and why I’m sharing this with you, Simone
I think we just need to be more honest about this subject.
Masturbation is:
- Normal
- Healthy
- Good for your libido
And perhaps more importantly:
It helps you to understand yourself better.
And if you combine that with the right tools?
Then it becomes not just more pleasurable, but also more fun to explore.
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In conclusion
So Simone… thank you for creating a place where these kinds of topics can simply be discussed.
Without shame.
Without judgment.
Just as it is.
Because let’s be honest:
your libido deserves a little love too 😉
Delen
